The girl asking me out is the leader of my entire college.
(Also the most hottest girl in my class)
Later on she asked me to go on a date with her in the biggest mall in Mumbai.
If you were in my shoes {{first_name}},
What would you choose?
A) Go on a date with the hottest girl in your entire class
B) Stay in, work on the business, keep building.
I chose B.
Not because I'm a Sigma Male, nonchalant type of guy,
But because I understood something that most guys my age don't.
When you focus on building yourself, you become more attractive naturally. Not just get better at business.
Every month you stay in the gym, you change physically.
Every month you work on your craft, you get sharper.
Every month you delay gratification, you become stronger.
You become attractive by becoming someone and not by chasing people.
That DM was 4 months ago.
Since then I've gained noticeable muscle.
My physique looks different in the mirror.
I started posting on threads.
And this week I got 50k views.
So if you focus on yourself and business…
…You will find better opportunities as you keep growing.
The right girl will still be there.
Or a better one will show up.
But the 6 months you lose chasing don't come back.
As my good old friend Ashu said,
“Focus on building garden, Don't catch butterflies.”
Hope this helps,
Zaid.
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